"The quality of any relationship is a function of the extent to which it meets the needs of the two people involved," Dr. Phil explains.
"When her needs aren't being met, then she's/he's going to be experiencing pain, frustration, fear. All of those things are happening with her/him, because she/he has needs that aren't being met."
"Do you wake up in the morning and ask yourself what you can do to make her/him feel better, to make her feel more loved, to make her feel more valued?" Dr. Phil asks.